Art of Parenting

  Does advice work for the children in teenage?
          The 14 Year old, they are in teenage group, These Children never take any advice. Children in the age group of 1 to 8 always accepts whatever you taught them why because their minds are in a receptive state, whatever suggestions you give they take them. Children age group of 1 to 8 years who are having positive exposure, they will be healthier, successful in all areas of their life, they themselves handles there own life with joy and ease. On the other side children exposed to negative things like family fights, violence, poverty, they are not gonna be successful at all they face all hardships in their life.

Art of Parenting

What it means to be a great parent?

               For teenagers as a parent you will make them busy, the question is how? here you go! Ask your children their interests in extra curricular activities(i.e, Mother should ask his son vice versa Father always ask her daughter for suggestion). They slowly start expressing their interests and says what they really want to do in their life. Dad! Mama! I really want to learn this and that, as a parent all you need to do is just observe them, look at them you notice there was a big change in their energy level and enthusiasm, you admired by their emotional shifts. If you are doing this for the first time means, you started learning the art of parenting which leads to a happy family life. "Children are not come for you, they come through you to explore their own life in this world". If you want to change the world go home and start loving your family these words by Lord Buddha.

                                                  

                                                             

   Why Parenting never seems to work?

             Look at the eyes of the children. There will be a pulse of life and there will be peace and silence. There is no such thing as a stupid child, who are always silent and quiet.  All children are just with glowing knowledge. Every child has unique gifts and talents. But the society, relatives and friends do not accepted it.  How do you treat and respect the people who raised you. Do the same for the children you have.  If you did so, You are giving your children complete freedom and also make them aware of the world by their own. As a whole help the your kids at your level best to become the most authentic version of themselves.

"It is easier to build strong children than to repair broken men"                                                                                      - Frederick Douglass.

 Conclusion:         

           
                           The average parents deals with the consequences of the problem that the child have whereas the wise parents always deals with the source of the issue. The best thing is always keep your children busy in such a way, you try to expose children to various physical activities like dance, singing, athletics, sports, yoga or meditation, always give them complete freedom and let them choose what's best fit for them. Advice is a nonsense from the children's perspective, try not to do that. Please carefully handle them, try to listen to them completely with patience. Show them love and tell them we are always there for you. Happy Children, Happy Family Life!.

                                                                                ------Be Blessed By the Divine.